How to prepare yourself for the experience of a Tantra massage

If you wish to feel special make yourself special

Spiritual, mental and physical preparation is a key component of Tantra. The experience will be greatly enhanced if you enter the session with an open heart, conscious awareness and an available body. Whether, consciously or unconsciously, the preparation begins even before your scheduled appointment. New clients in particular, should establish a clear intention for the impending Tantric session. It’s important to remember that the path of Tantra is both spiritual as well as sensual. Tantra explores our sexuality and sensuality as a conscious meditation. The act of setting your intention will create an opening for the session to unfold naturally and in harmony with the physical, erotic and cosmic energies contained within you. You will want to prepare your mind, body and spirit for the experience. For a first-time receiver, the act of opening all parts of your body – including the most sacred areas – to exploration and stimulation can be a life-changing experience.

Please read very attentively, take mental notes. This is important.

This is a date with yourself.

You don’t have to please no one except yourself.         

Make some space and time for yourself.

No preoccupation no appointment closes to the massage.

After the massage you may want relax and may be even sleep.

Have a blanket ready to put on top of you after the massage, if you feel cold.

No cells phone ring, no distraction, have your mind free completely of any worry.

Make the room dark and intimate.

Light up some candles , always nicer with  few candles

Nice soft music (not too loud). ( if you wish )

Have a long shower or bath.

IMPORTANT : Please be recently trimmed ( short ) or waxed.

Wear perfume if you wish.

Make your bed nice clean and ready.

Have some towels near your bed.

Wear your favorite under wears:  panties, bra, and negligee, “if “you enjoyed to be slowly discovered and open then having them be removed by the masseur.

Make yourself feel very sexy

You will lie down on your stomach and have one or two pillows (as you feel comfortable) under your vagina area, to have your bottom up.

I will start massage your feet, than your back your neck, your arms, your hands your hips and your butt, than you will rollover and I will massage the front part of your body.

I will gently massage and arouse your breast area, until you feel a great pleasure emerging to other part of your body.

Use your voice, your words, don’t be shy to moan to scream, let go loud to share your feeling, to let the other person know how you feel. More you practice, and more real it will become and better you will enjoy your pleasure in future.

Move with the breathe, so the sensation of yourselves and the excitement circulate into the whole body  

Important: When you are on point to release an orgasm .Visual, imagine what you want to change in your life and want to be: example more harmony in your life, more love in your life, be a more orgasmic woman, then when you release at the moment of the orgasm and it imprint in your sub conscience so it goes into the universe, then it happens in life because it attract itself to you during your life.

When you will be ready you may direct my hands any where you would like. (Breast, vagina or other part)

Relax be open, imagine that you are receiving an infinite love from the universe

Remember; when you are getting close to the orgasm always breathe deeply, if anything blocks your mind it will go away.

When the G-spot massage occurs, breathe deeply.  Let the masseur know that you enjoy. Then push your muscles, like you learn in the PC muscle exercise.  Let go the flow, release your muscle, clean your mind, and enjoy the pleasure to have your G-spot massaged. If you feel discomfort happen, hold on for few minutes, after that it is pure ecstasy. But I am always very gentle, don’t worry.

You are in safe hands; keep breathing it will go away.

It is a very pleasant experience, it is beautiful it is erotic it is sensuous

Close your eyes and feel the pleasure taking you somewhere else.

Once you receive a pleasure (if orgasm occur) you may want to get up , do it slowly, keep in harmony with your pleasure. Have a rest or keep that pleasure for yourself as long as possible. Don’t rush in your very active life immediately.

Always, remember I am very discreet, I don’t abuse vulnerability. Whatever happens in this room will stay there.

To really understand tantra massage, you need to be turning on yourself. It is different than some regular sexual intercourse, it cannot be compare, and both are good. But tantra massage is something you get for your own self-satisfaction to add to your sexual life. (like yoga , or go to the gym) You learn to get in touch with your inner sexuality. You enjoy to explore some erogenous zone, that you never develop before or maybe too shy to think about it.

Practice, practice tantra massage once a week in your life or as often you life style let you do it. It will change your life; you will feel light, ecstatic and happy. It brings happiness in your life.