SEXUAL HEALING TECHNIQUES
There are several types of trauma we
encounter in our daily life. Some of them are physical, psychological and
sometimes sexual. A small sprain in the ankle joint while kicking the bike’s
kick starter, the muscle strain in the hip while picking up a dropped pen, the
accidental bump in the head against the table corner while getting up from the
floor, etc. are small and painful experiences we encounter in our day-to-day
life.
In
our daily life we also encounter many small time quarrels with our fellow men
and women. Quarrels of road traffic, quarrels over price of articles, refused
smile of a friend over a small tussle, discrepancy with the boss, insult from
younger people, etc. are few worth quoting.
These small problems dissipate in the air
over time but their effects i.e. the bad energy created by these events collects
in our body and soul and when a certain threshold is crossed it manifests as
disease, depression or frustration.
There are some more serious traumatic
experiences some people exposed either physical or mental also like road traffic
accidents, homicide attacks, separation or loss of relationships, sexual abuse,
etc.
All these will have severe toll over the
sexual life of the victim. They prevent the person from let go into the sexual
act and experience the true orgasm. Many times the affected women undergo
intercourse without going through the natural stages of arousal and excitation.
This thickens her vaginal tissues and thus lesser excitation results. She may
move her pelvis too much and contract the vaginal muscles more which would alter
the pattern of her sexual anatomy in an unhealthy way. These women may not
recognize the problem as she would feel the sexual urge and she may respond well
with sexual stimulation. But this is a false sign of arousal. She will be
responding with hardening of her pelvic and vaginal muscles and this decreases
the sensitivity to a significant extent.
THE G-SPOT MASSAGE
The G-spot massage is very much healing to
these problems by releasing the bad and traumatic energy that is stored in the
cells and tissues. Sexual abuse is an invasion of somebody into another
person’s space, body, and energy, traumatizing the body, mind, energy, trust
and self respect of the victim. All these bad energy will be stored in the cells
as cellular memories and if they are left unhealed, they may cost the person’s
physical, mental and sexual life. The G-spot is the area where all the emotions,
good or bad, are stored. All the suppressed thoughts and sexual energies get
accumulated in the G-spot and if not released properly, it can lead to decreased
sensual feel and ‘something lacking’ feel in sexual experiences. Yoni
massage is the best for these cellular bad energy releases. A woman can do this
to herself, or she can have a partner, friend or a properly trained healer to
assist her. If the woman chooses a partner, then both should understand that the
yoni healing massage should not be done in conjunction with or prior to
intercourse. Yoni massage is a healing program and the yoni cells should be
allowed to rest for sometime to reprogram.
THE FUTURE OF SACRED SEXUALITY
Humanity is in the course of moving out of
the old fashioned principles and stigmas of fear-based past regarding sex
towards a better felt freedom. This vision of responsible love and uninhibited
sexual freedom will spread through the minds of all free thinking men and women
in the near future. Freedom of rightful thought is the essence of all religious
philosophies all over the world. Understanding the righteousness and
justification over this sacred sexuality and sexual freedom will create
acceptance among the one who honors the freedom of thought and respects the
individuals decision over ones own sexuality and sexual life.
The journey towards releasing the
traumatized energy and the importance of G-spot in the process takes years to
fully comprehend. Just reading an article on G-spot sexual healing or watching a
video on G-spot and sexual healing and applying it will not be an instant
success. You can experience orgasm and ejaculation, but the real purpose of
sexual healing i.e. release of the traumatized energy can be experienced and
enjoyed only by sheer understanding and applying over years of time.
Understanding over the G-spot and its special nature is very important in sexual healing. It is been known that traumatic energy of the past experiences are stored in our cells or organs or muscles if they are not released properly and periodically. The G-spot provides an easy path toward releasing these trapped damaging energies. As a regular prostatic massage help men to maintain prostate health, regular G-spot massage, outside the sexual arena, is essential for women to maintain a healthy sexual and emotional well being. If a woman practices it properly she can explore the path and release all the tensions and unwanted energy store in her body. If you are with a woman who has experienced this type of experience or with someone who hasn’t, an informed G-spot massage may excite orgasm and sensory stimulation or comfort or pain. Persistence with proper understanding and applying the right technique will unfold ground-shaking revelations and deeper intimacy, which we all will love to the core.
MY SPECIALITIES
I am specialized in Tantric Sexual Healing for women. I work with only women. Pain, bad memory, betrayal, guilt and shame of the past, related to sexuality, can obstruct a woman’s sexual gratification, excitation, ecstasy, sensual feel, the let go and the orgasmic potential. Right from the childhood we all are taught to suppress emotions. These suppressed emotions build blocks to rightful energy expressions. These energy blocks, if they are related to sexuality, gets accumulated in a woman around the area of G-spot. This block can decrease the sensual feel and orgasm during sex. Yoni massage is one of the best available exercises to remove this block and revitalize the sensual energy. Deep from the heart and with unconditional love I assist women and help them release these blocked traumatic energy and let them experience the sensual feel and orgasmic fulfillment in complete.
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A LITTLE EDUCATION IN SEXUAL
HEALING
Sexual trauma has a deep bad effect on the body and its systems. The human body and mind responds to sexual trauma by becoming numb and unconscious. This usually results in loss of libido and discomfort during coitus for those people who are not able to deal with the effects of sexual trauma. Tantric sexual practices releases the emotional collection of negative energy at cellular level and restores consciousness back in simple and natural way.
Sexual trauma also elicits another type of psychological response by nerve fibers and muscle sheaths to stress or the fight or flight response. The neurons lose their function and close down. The usual interactions and combined functioning between the body and the neurons are all affected. This may cause anxiety, depression and the results in the start of a psychosomatic disorder. An abrupt start of pains, aches or senselessness is commonly seen among the people who are sexually depressed.
2.
Apply gentle strokes with your finger and keep applying pressure
and movement to the G-area till sensual feel is elicited and spread across your
body. It takes training and you may not achieve it overnight. You may need
constant practice to master the art.
3.
Sexual dysfunction in sensual organs occurs due to collection
of traumatic energy in those areas. To remove the effects of traumatic events,
you have to practice tantric healing techniques of healing massages and proper
G-area stimulation.
4.
In ancient holistic healing science like Ayurveda,
it is mentioned that two naadis (nerve
endings of sexuality) ida & pingala
(present near clitoris) require fondling. Careful treatment to these naadis
overcomes mis-happenings during coitus. Fondling involves stroking the areas
near the G-spot and clitoris. In G-spot massage you have to apply proper and
varied pressure and strokes of varied pace and you should also club it with
adequate clitoral massage. You can make circumferential or vertical massage to
the clitoris either by finger or tongue.
5.
Women who have thicker tissues in their yonis tend to reach
orgasms faster and they are resistant to sensual touch. Practicing tantric
massage on those women increases their sensitivity to touch and it prolongs the
pleasure and helps them to achive longer and multiple orgasms.
6.
During any session of sexual Tantra, the women are advised not
to move the pelvis too much and also to control the response of tightening it.
Also, vaginal muscles are to be relaxed to create healthy patterning in sexual
anatomy. The vaginal muscles could be relaxed by proper G-spot massage and
proper instruction to the woman prior and during the massage to relax and feel
the energy relaxes her muscles. Proper maintenance of communication and eye
contact and watchful observation of the signs of relaxation and feel of the
energy by her is essential in successful G-spot massage and proper relaxation of
her vaginal muscles.
7. Vaginal tissues that have suffered from sexual trauma are to be calmed and sexually aroused by performing G-spot Massage. The vaginal cellular memories of unwanted and forceful events can be eliminated by performing G -spot massage. In sexual trauma the bad memories are stored in the organs at cellular level and it may cause stiffening of the vaginal wall and insensitivity. All these collected energy can be released and the organ can be revitalized by repeated and proper G-spot massage.