It is important to note that some women are not as sensitive to sensation in their g-spot area as others and may prefer more clitoral stimulation as a means to achieve sexual stimulation.

The female urethra (pee tube) runs along the front/top side of the vagina, between it and the pubic bone. With stimulation such as finger, sex toy, penis stroking or even just sexual stimulation, the area will begin to swell and the sensations may become increasingly pleasurable. Continuing may produce an intense orgasm. Like the prostate, the g-spot can produce ejaculate which may be released on orgasm and may "squirt" or gush out.

While ALL women have a G-spot, it was often overlooked by physicians because it's on the anterior (front) wall of the vagina, which is an area that's often not contacted with physical stimulation. A woman must be sexually aroused for it to become engorged (and made puffy) and most often women are not sexually aroused when visiting their doctors nor do their doctors stimulate it. But when gynecologists do palpate it they have found that all women indeed have one!

Study That Says Only Some Women Have A G-spot

One scientist has come to the conclusion that the much-talked-about area believed to be the point of origin for the female "vaginal" orgasm does exist but only in some women, according to a small study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine.

Emmanuele Jannini of the University of L'Aquila in Italy used an ultrasound to scan the area of the vagina where the G-spot, also called the Gräfenberg spot after Ernest Gräfenberg, the man who discovered it, is located. Jannini determined that the tissue on the front vaginal wall located behind the urethra was noticeably thicker in the women who reported having vaginal orgasms.

The thicker tissue, the study concluded, demonstrates the presence of a G-spot. "For the first time, it is possible to determine by a simple, rapid and inexpensive method if a woman has a G-spot or not," Jannini said. "Women without any visible evidence of a G-spot cannot have a vaginal orgasm.''

However, one has to examine if that is what we are really referring to when we are identifying the g-spot. Are we saying that it is tissue or are we saying that it is the Skenes glands under the tissue. If we agree that it is the Skenes glands (which most would agree upon) that make up the g-spot, and because all women have Skenes glands, then it is only fair to say that all women have a g-spot.

However, some women have thicker tissue in front of the Skenes glands which means that it makes it's presence more pronounced and easier to find. It also allows for more pressure to be placed on it when a penis, finger or sex toy is pressing against it. Therefore, it would logically make sense that those women that have more tissue in front of the Skenes glands would be more prone to vaginal orgasm than those with not as much tissue.

For one scientist to come forward and make such a bold claim after only examining one aspect of the g-spot is like one not being able to see the forest through the trees. When you look at a woman as a whole than you can see her sexual functioning more clearly.

All women have a g-spot, however, the sensitivity of that g-spot, the mass of tissue in front of it and the size of those glands are all variables. A woman will have to determine if she has high or low sensitivity and work with what she has. Should she not find much pleasure through g-spot stimulation, then certainly vaginal stimulation is still an over all pleasurable sensation, especially when enhanced with clitoral stimulation.

Stimulation to the g-spot to achieve female ejaculation is usually necessary to achieve it, however, at the moment of ejaculation other stimulation to the clitoris, breasts, etc. may be what brings a woman to orgasm and the ability to push it out.

Some women are able to expel female ejaculate with no stimulation to their g-spot at all, but are able to fill the g-spot glands through sexual stimulation to other sexual hot spots causing sexual arousal and ultimately allowing the it to fill with the prostate-like fluid and finally releasing it.

Also, some women can expel female ejaculate without having an orgasm, through bearing down and pushing it out once her Skenes glands (g-spot) are filled. However, most women require an orgasm to release it.

The medical community still neglects women's sexuality by not further examining female ejaculation. This is most likely due to the strong association people have to this beautiful female sexual function as pornographic or as a bogus myth that it is urine (pee). One would think we are still living in the dark ages when many scientists, researchers and medical professionals resist being linked to women's sexual functioning for fear of being thought of as supporting what the porn industry has been marketing for years as "squirting, gushing, and spraying ejaculate."

Lie back with your knees pressed up to your chest. In this position, your vaginal depth will shorten and even short fingers should be able to reach the G-spot. A partner, may do the same thing by sliding their finger inside you and making a "come here" motion. You can also lie on your side with one leg drawn up to your chest as your partner enters you from the rear, or on your hands and knees (doggy style position) and have your partner use their finger pressing forward toward your navel to stimulate it. Of course there are other positions, these are just a few of many variations. A g-spot stimulator is great to use as are dildos in addition to fingers and/or a penis.

The g-spot is about the size of a quarter, although size varies in women just as it does in men. It can be anywhere along the 2-3 inch long area between the pubic bone and the cervix. Explore slowly, and if you are her partner, allow for feedback from her to help guide you.

The best way to find it is to first use fingers. The G-spot responds to pressure rather than to touch. Gentle stroking is not likely to find it. It's like massaging a marble that is inside a pillow; one has to compress the flesh to find it. When you reach in from the front with the woman on her back, the heel of your hand is over her clitoris while your fingers hook around her pubic bone. Pull upwards, as if you're trying to lift her off the bed with a back and forth rhythm of "come here."

As your fingers may become tired after a while of doing this, we recommend using a
g-spot stimulator or dildo in addition to the possibility of penile penetration as a way of providing continued stimulation to her and relief for your fingers.

Female Ejaculation

Commonly referred to as “squirting” or “gushing”, female ejaculation during orgasm is an often misunderstood phenomenon. For most of the last century, there was controversy over whether it existed at all.

More than likely you’ve heard stories about female ejaculation. The subject has also been made popular recently by pornographic videos. Still it’s hard to find actual details and helpful information out there. Many people are completely clueless as to what female ejaculation is and why it occurs.

While, from a medical point of view, there isn’t a lot of proven research on female ejaculation, we at least have enough to get a fairly good view of what it is, why it happens, and maybe even how to make it happen.

Female ejaculation is real and it isn’t new

Amazingly, female ejaculation has been recorded as far back as Aristotle. The Roman physician, Galen, also wrote about a “thin fluid that manifestly flows when they experience the greatest pleasure in coitus”.

Seventeenth century Dutch anatomist Regnier de Graaf wrote a book about female anatomy in which he spoke about a female fluid “coming in one gush” during sexual excitement. Female ejaculation is also mentioned in the Kama Sutra and centuries-old Japanese texts.

Modern studies

Up until fairly recently, western society has suppressed discussions and studies of a woman’s sexuality. Even worse, ignorant physicians have tried to “cure” women who thought that something was wrong with them because of their ability to ejaculate.

In the early 1980’s the book “The G Spot and Other Recent Discoveries About Human Sexuality” was published by doctors John Perry, Beverly Whipple, and Alice Kahn Ladas. It not only brought the G-spot into the public eye, but also addressed female ejaculation.

While the findings were limited, they were enough to force the medical and scientific community to begin acknowledging female ejaculation as a normal, healthy function.

No, it’s not urine

Female ejaculate is not urine! Although it can contain small traces of substances found in urine, it’s actually an alkaline liquid that bears more resemblance to male ejaculate than urine.

The fluid is produced by the para-urethral glands, which are also known as the “Skenes Glands” or female prostate. It’s made up of glucose, fructose (found in male ejaculate), and prostate-specific antigen (PSA) a protein that is also found in male ejaculate.

Produced in small quantities it will be a silky, mucous-like fluid that may have a musky smell, as the volume increases it becomes clearer and loses all scent.

What causes female ejaculation?

As the G-spot is stimulated, the surrounding erectile tissue swells with fluid from the para-urethral glands. Rhythmic contractions of the pelvic muscle during G-spot orgasm expels the accumulated fluid through the urethra (not the vagina).

Para-urethral glands vary in size and number from woman to woman. In fact, they may be completely missing in some women. This may explain why some women are able to forcefully ejaculate and some cannot.

In rare cases, the glands and tissue are able to quickly refill with fluid. This can cause a considerable amount of liquid during ejaculation.

Can all women ejaculate?

Arguably, since they all have a prostate gland, all women produce ejaculate. However, studies estimate that the amount of women who actually do forcefully ejaculate is between 10% and 50%.

The ones who don’t ejaculate probably are, they just don’t know it. It may be seeping out in small amounts and mixing with the rest of her body fluids. Many women have trained their bodies to hold back the ejaculate in the mistaken assumption that it is urine.

Embarrassing or amazing?

Some women are extremely embarrassed by their ability to ejaculate, feeling that is “messy” or “dirty”. This embarrassment is perpetrated by ignorant partners who are put off by the fluid, usually because they think it is urine.

A great lover (usually an educated one) will be extremely pleased to make a woman ejaculate. They’ll know that it was because she felt comfortable, safe, and relaxed enough to utterly let go and experience the most amazing orgasm possible.

To Appropriately stimulate the G-spot first make sure the vagina is aroused. Adding lubrication to the fingers or vibrator will ensure a comfortable experience.

G-Spot stimulation will cause the female to take a deep breath and push down really hard. Most women describe the sensation as feeling like they want to urinate at first, then changing to pleasure.

Some positions to try when stimulating the g-shot are on all fours, on the stomach with a pillow under the hips or having the women lay on her back, bringing her knees to her chest, this will help in reaching the g shot more readily.

The G-spot responds to pressure rather than to touch. Gently stroking is not likely to get any results. It's more like massaging a pea under a thick cloth. You must to compress the flesh to find it.

When using your fingers for G-Spot stimulation you would insert your finger(s) into the vagina and bend them gently up, around and behind the pubic bone. You will feel a rather rough-surfaced tissue immediately behind the pubic bone, your fingertips will encounter a very soft, smooth area. Go very slowly as you explore the smooth area, which will feel to you like the inside of a very slippery mitten. When you straighten your fingers and reach further inside, you'll encounter a hard, rubbery structure that feels like an erect nipple pointing south. This is the cervix. The G-spot is somewhere just this side of the cervix, about an inch beyond the mitten, in the flesh immediately in front of the vagina.

Imagine you're holding a tennis ball on those two of three inserted fingers. An area about the size of a grape in the center of the tennis ball is what you're trying to reach. It can be anywhere along that two-or-three inch long area between the pubic bone and the cervix. Explore slowly and feel the stimulation. The G-spot responds to pressure rather than to touch. Gentle stroking is not likely to find it. It's more like massaging a pea under a mattress. You have to compress the flesh to find it.

When you reach in from the front ,the heel of your hand is on the clitoris while your fingers hook around the pubic bone. Pull upwards, as if you're trying to lift up. Do this with rhythm, and keep your fingers hooked, so they press deep into the tissue. Once you know where it is you can try using a vibrator on it. For good G-spot orgasm, fingers or a vibrator are usually preferred.

In face-to-face intercourse, the penis may not stimulate the G-spot enough to do any good, although some positions, such as the one where the women draws her knees close to her chest, may increase the chances for G-Spot stimulation through intercourse